Meet Kwame and Nakia Stringfield

Founders of See Beyond Consulting, LLC

At See Beyond Consulting, we believe that families—and marriages—can win, no matter what. Kwame and Nakia Stringfield are a passionate husband-and-wife team, dedicated to helping couples and families thrive through life’s challenges, especially those navigating the unique journey of raising children with special needs.

As special needs parents themselves, they understand firsthand how pressure, purpose, and parenting can collide. But through their faith, love, and intentional growth, they’ve learned how to rewire their mindset, lead with love, and build a fulfilling life—together. Now, they help others do the same.

💡 Their Mission:

To help families and couples see beyond what is and step boldly into what’s possible—with clarity, connection, and purpose.

✨ Nakia Stringfield is the author of Rewired Parenting: Changing Your Mindset for Your Special Needs Child, a powerful resource for parents ready to shift from survival to strategy. With 27 years of experience in corporate leadership, Nakia brings expert-level coaching and practical insight into navigating change, building systems, and showing up strong for your family and yourself.

✨ Together, Kwame and Nakia offer faith-centered marriage coaching designed to help couples reconnect, communicate with love, and thrive in their relationship while parenting with purpose. Their approach is honest, hopeful, and rooted in real-life strategies for building a Rewired Life—together.

Kwame and Nakia have been happily married for over 27 years. They are proud parents of three daughters and lovers of life—Nakia enjoys long beach walks, while Kwame finds joy in drag racing and weightlifting.

📣 Services Offered by See Beyond Consulting:

Marriage & Relationship Coaching for Couples Living the Rewired Life
Educational Consulting for Schools & Organizations Supporting Special Needs Families
Coaching for Parents, Educators, and Leaders
Interactive Workshops for Strengthening Families and Communities

If you're ready to strengthen your marriage, support your family more effectively, or create spaces where special needs families can thrive—we’re here to walk with you.

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Updates from Kwame & Nakia Stringfield

“What Did I Do Wrong?” – Reframing the Question That Breaks So Many Moms’ Hearts

04/01/2025 11:00 AM Central
Kwame & Nakia Stringfield
grace, parenting, rewired
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Parenting a neurodiverse child is a journey filled with highs and lows, akin to a dance that moves between grace and struggle, but always with love. The question "What did I do wrong?" can haunt parents, yet it is unproductive and does not reflect the true essence of the parenting experience. Instead, a more empowering question to ask is, "How can I best support and celebrate the child I’ve been entrusted with?" This reframe shifts the focus from self-blame to nurturing and appreciating the unique qualities of the child.

To thrive as a parent, it is crucial to practice self-compassion and recognize that caring for oneself is not selfish but necessary. Just as flight attendants advise putting on your oxygen mask first, parents must ensure their own well-being to effectively support their children. Additionally, celebrating the brilliance of neurodiverse children by recognizing their strengths, such as curiosity and creativity, fosters their confidence and growth.

Embracing the journey of parenting a neurodiverse child involves accepting the twists and turns along the way, which deepen connections and model resilience and unconditional love. This path is not about achieving perfection but about growth and transformation for both parent and child. By letting go of blame and embracing hope, grace, and purpose, parents can navigate this journey with open hearts and the assurance that love never fails.

How to Celebrate Your Spouse by Focusing on Their Strengths

03/30/2025 08:00 AM Central
Kwame & Nakia Stringfield
celebrate, marriage, rewired
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Transforming your marriage can be as simple as shifting your mindset to regularly celebrate your spouse beyond special occasions like birthdays and anniversaries. By adopting an everyday approach to focus on your partner’s strengths and intentionally acknowledging them, you create a positive atmosphere that fosters growth and appreciation. This strategy, while simple, can have profound effects, as it utilizes the natural human tendency to thrive under sincere encouragement.

Inspired by the concept that "what you appreciate, appreciates," this approach involves actively noticing and naming the good in your spouse. Simple affirmations such as expressing gratitude for daily contributions or admiring how they handle challenges can have a significant impact. Much like positive reinforcement works wonders in raising children, adults, especially spouses, also benefit from this form of encouragement.

In a world prone to focusing on the negative, intentionally highlighting positive traits in your partner can create a cultural shift in your relationship. It assures them that they are seen, valued, and supported, potentially transforming your home into a nurturing environment where celebration is woven into the daily fabric of life. By regularly asking yourself what strengths you can affirm in your spouse, you not only encourage them but also enrich the entire household, fostering a vibrant and rewarding partnership.